Deconstructing Bella Swan: What Makes Her Tick?

Is the Twilight Saga Heroine a Good Role Model for Girls?

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Cover of Twilight - Little, Brown and Company
Cover of Twilight - Little, Brown and Company
Girls everywhere want more than anything to be Bella Swan. Is she setting a good example for a generation of impressionable teenagers?

Around the globe, millions of teenagers have latched onto the bestselling Twilight series by author Stephenie Meyer, falling in love with its characters, its rainy setting of Forks, Washington and its romantic essence. The narrator of the Twilight saga, Bella Swan, is an object of worship and even envy for teen girls everywhere. On social networking sites like MySpace and Facebook, it’s not uncommon to find graphics proudly paraded on profiles that say things like ‘Hi, my name is Bella Swan (I wish!)’ or ‘I’m transferring to Forks High’.

Through her blockbuster novels, Stephenie Meyer has unwittingly created a new role model for girls everywhere, but is Bella Swan a good one? Let’s take a look.

What Makes Bella Tick: The Good

If you’re not familiar with the storyline of Twilight, it’s relatively easy to recap. Isabella ’Bella’ Swan leaves her newly remarried, slightly flakey mother in Phoenix, Arizona and relocates to her father’s home in Forks, Washington. There, she starts school and falls in love with the enigmatic, beautiful Edward Cullen, a century old vampire living among mortals.

Bella’s reasons for leaving Phoenix are self-sacrificing. Since her stepfather moves for work so much, her mother is left behind to care for her daughter and is miserable being parted from him. Bella’s move to Forks will insure that her mother can accompany her husband wherever he goes and be happy. Thus, Bella sacrifices her own happiness for someone else’s, which is an admirable action and teaches that the ‘typical’ selfish behavior of a teenager doesn’t have to be the norm.

Once in Forks with her father, a small town police chief, she takes the reins in the household, the very picture of the responsible daughter who does her homework and does the dishes.

Speaking of homework, Bella is also a star student, ahead of the curve in all her classes--at least, in all things other than in trigonometry and physical education--and more power to the girls who strive to achieve the same star student status so that they can be like Bella. She reads extensively and the titles she selects are often classics that many girls have never heard of outside of English class, like the works of Jane Austen, and would never pursue reading on their own. Through Bella Swan, Stephenie Meyer gives teenage girls a push in the right direction: namely, towards the classic literature section of their local bookstore.

In addition to being a very bright and very responsible young lady, Bella has a good heart and loves the people around her unconditionally. She does whatever she can to help the people she cares about, like matchmaking for her new friends in school. She’s polite and generally good natured, without a hateful or spiteful bone in her body.

These are all commendable traits, but Bella is far from perfect. In the article Bella Swan: The Other Side of the Coin we’ll examine the negative.

If you enjoyed this article, you may want to read the article Stephenie Meyer’s Twilight.

Lydia Ballard - A writer who got her start in the perilous world of fan fiction, Lydia Ballard is an aspiring comic book writer and self proclaimed lover ...

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Dec 5, 2008 7:21 PM
Guest :
Bella Swan is by no means a good heroine. She is a dependent and whiny pushover. She falls into a coma because she cannot EXIST without her ultrahot boytoy.
Dec 12, 2008 8:53 PM
Guest :
I most definitely agree with the other comment on this. Bella's very dependent on somebody most of the time and it's unhealthy, therefore not something to look up to.
Dec 14, 2008 3:53 PM
Guest :
Bella swan is a good role model because she inspires teenagers like myself to work hard and be polite and smart. And now i live life to the fullest
Dec 14, 2008 4:52 PM
Guest :
I agree and disagree. Yes, she is whiny and a pushover and at times you just hate her, but I do believe she's an acceptable role model...She does have her down points, I'm not denying that, but wouldn't you love a daughter who isn't so concerned about what other people say or think? Wouldn't you love if they thought about what was good for just about everyone but themselves? You can't deny you'd love someone with those traits.
Dec 15, 2008 7:27 PM
Guest :
i hate bella swan. i mean, of course shes not a good heroine, but the companion article to this 1 totally rips into the twit. Obviously, the righter was trying to be balanced and fair with 1 article each about her good side and her bad side. the bad side article si way longer and way more indepth. death to twilight!!!
Jan 5, 2009 7:44 AM
Guest :
BELLA = TRASH.
As a 17 year old female i think Bella is an awful 'heroine'. The fact that girls would actually look up to a talentless, personality-less, spineless, self-deprecating failure like her is highly disheartening. She throws away her ife, friends and even her family for some 100 and whatever year old pedophile trapped in a 17 year old hottie's bod forever so that makes it all okay. She perpetuates the embarassing steriotype that women need a man in their lives. She has no good qualities yet two "so sexy it hurts" supernatural guys are attracted to her? What does this teach girls? That if Mr.Wonderful doesn't find you you're destened for eternal gloom? That everything is supposed to just come to you without you working for it? Screw that. Stephany Meyer is garbaje and Twilight is a way for her to act out some ridiculous romantic fantasy for herself.
In conclusion: Twilight and the author and everything in that book = TRASH.
Jan 13, 2009 10:13 PM
Guest :
Bella swan is by no means a BAD role model. Im 15, 16 in march and she has inspired me to study more, read and basicly be bella. Do you agree)
Feb 7, 2009 5:31 PM
Guest :
Well if Bella is a bad role model, please tell us a "good one"? Because in today's society who do us teens have to look up to, Britney Spears? Miley Cyrus? YEAH RIGHT! Bella is an awesome role model to look up to she's polite, well behaved, a good student, smart, helps around at home and is NOT a slut! I just wish more people would follow her example, as i am :)
Apr 17, 2009 3:06 PM
Guest :
I had the exact opposite reaction as the author of this article. She lies to every single character in the first book. Mike, Jessica & Tyler are all built as one-dimensional characters that she happily maintains superficial relationships with (unbeknownst to them). She feigns concern for her dad, Charlie, physically, at least, but is otherwise emotionally abusive to him throughout the series (she never actually goes about apologizing for what she said to him when she left at the end of the first book, the same thing her mom had said -- low blow). In fact, her entire relationship with her parents are asymmetrical. One of the few times she is honest with either of them, about anything, is because Edward forces her to be. She's a sociopath.
May 5, 2009 5:42 PM
Guest :
I wouldn't go so far to call Bella's character a sociopath but I don't think she too far off the mark in a way. Bella, as a character may be viewed as "kind" and smart by some; fine. But it can't be denied that her characters personality kind of also inverts the whole idea of feminism. Like stated above, she hasn't done anything on her own. She is always using someone else to do things for her. I must she Bella was a huge disappointment. She could have been a great role model for young girls, however, all she achieved was making girls feel even more self-conscious about themselves if they can't snag an ultra hot pedo man with a sexy boy on the side
May 26, 2009 9:46 PM
Guest :
A mature character written for mature girls.What's the big deal;it's not like girls are stupid or immature.I assure you;their ultra,mega super smart,mature powers will keep them on track and walk away unhurt by the book written by a fellow womyn.
Now if I may,I must return to reading an article in World Book for my pleasure ^-^ :) "kawaii" ^^ ^=^ >_>
Sep 25, 2009 5:46 PM
Guest :
This article = FAIL
Bella Swan = FAIL
Twilight = FAIL
Stephanie Myer = FAIL
Dec 17, 2009 2:32 PM
Guest :
Bella Swan has good traits and bad traits. Everyone on here has said them many times:
Good: A+ student, tidy, polite, plain (which means that pretty girls are not the only ones who can get hott guys :) )
Bad: She's dependant, whiny, weak, sociopath....I could go on and on
So there's only one conclusion:
She's a good role model in some ways, and in other ways she's HORRIBLE AT IT!!!! There you go, conversation over
Jan 10, 2010 2:15 PM
Guest :
Bella Swan Is A Very Good Role Model.She Is Smart,Has Natural Beauty,Is Kind,Caring,And Trust Worthy,She Promised Her Devotion To The One That She Loves (Edward Cullen).And She Has Kept His Secret Because She Truly Loves Him With All Her Heart, And She Would Do Anything For Him And His Family.
Jan 22, 2010 10:55 PM
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Fuck you. Bella is the most self centered, winny, cock tease of a bitch I have ever read. She is one of the most destestable characters in modern liturature. She's rude to her father, the people who try to be her friends, generally everyone in her life but her sparkely boyfriend. She's a shitty rolemodle and I look down on any parent who would set her up as a rolemodle.
Jan 26, 2010 8:52 AM
Guest :
I think that this article is a farce. Like other people have said, Bella is a whiny, petulant character whose entire life revolves around men. Not at home doing dishes and cooking for her dad (whom she calls by his first name, which is just a bit disrespectful given how well he treats her)? Why, she's making out with Edward, of course. Not making out with Edward? She's hanging out with Jacob. Not hanging out with Jacob? She's at home, doing dishes for Charlie, and the cycle comes full circle. I also find it hard to call her a good role model when she's outright flattered that Edward was stalking her. And I really think you missed the point about preteens wanting to be her--they don't actually want to be Bella, they just want Edward, who has to be the dullest and stiffest (no pun intended) love interest in the history of the written word. I love how, in the pages of collective description about Edward Cullen, Bella never once considers his possessive behavior or his tempter tantrums when he doesn't get his way. Sure, she sees them happen, but oh it's no biggie, that's just how Edward is. Yikes.
Feb 14, 2010 2:11 PM
Guest :
Why would you want to look up to a girl who conciderders herself "incomplete" with out her man. Imagine a whole generation of whinny unindependent wemon.
Mar 6, 2010 9:36 PM
Guest :
I think that Stephanie Meyer is trying to show young girls a good role model. Keyword being: Trying. In the first book, she is a nice person, and a good role model. Next stop, New Moon. I spent the whole book alternatly laughing at how stupid she was, and worrying about the state of the nation after this made a New York Times best seller. Bella falls into a state of depression, and takes months to come out of it, just because her boyfriend left her. She is surprised that her friends don't seem to like her anymore, and then starts playing with the emotions of the one person who could help her out of her depression by acting like she's into him, but is actually just using him as a rebound guy, and doesn't REALLY love him. She's using him to help her attempt suicide to hear her ex-boyfriend's voice. Then, she leaves all the friends she has remade to go to Italy, because her ex boyfriend is on his own selfish suicide mission. In Eclipse, she encourages sex before marrige, and CAN'T MAKE UP HER FREAKING MIND! She keeps playing with both boys' emotions, which is NOT something that a good or kind person would do. I decided not to waste my money to buy Breaking Dawn, so I don't have any critisizm about that.
Apr 3, 2010 6:06 AM
Guest :
now,now,read this.A very good article written by a very genius person,suitable to debate your points.Not written by me anyway,thanks the original writer for such an amazing work

http://www.fanpop.com/spots/critical-analysis-of-bella-swan/articles/5005 8/title/critical-analysis-bella-swan
Apr 3, 2010 6:08 AM
Guest :
regarding your points of pro-Bella,read this article written by a genius,its very good.Not written by me,thank the original brilliant writer.Have a good day.

http://www.fanpop.com/spots/critical-analysis-of-bella-swan/articles/5005 8/title/critical-analysis-bella-swan
Apr 20, 2010 10:52 PM
Guest :
yea she is a good role model. like i know she has some bad traits but who in todays society is? i mean even the small good things she does. i mean after bella i've helped around my house more, and i care less about what people think of me. I dont change myself for others. I think bella is too dependent on edward. but even with him in the picture she risks her life for her mom. with the whole james thing. if thats not a selfless act i dont know what is. i mean she has so many good qualities. Its not like shes some crack addict DUI sexin up all da guys getting prego with her baby daddy. Like im just saying, i think shes a pretty good person. :)
Apr 30, 2010 7:24 AM
Guest :
Definetly not O_O If girls acted like Bella Swann I'd be in a form of hell.
Thank god it's a 2-Dimensional fantasy......

Ah.....Mary-Sues and Gary Stues

Sure she made a "so" called selfless decision and smart in the first few pages. but it turns to the worst....

She thinks of her friends as annoyances. Once her happily ever after comes she will no longer have to deal with the mortal nuiscances.

She would be the worst daughter to ever have and is practically disrespective to her father (Who cares if its divorced parents play the violin) It's still horrible to call a nice father who's trying to do his best by his first name.

Even the E-mails and contact she had with her mother is also bad. She was very reluctant to see her mother and talks about her as if she's a child and that in a sense Bella thinks she more better and more mature than her. Arrogance...Even if her mum is a bit immature. No need to talk that your the better person than the person who raised you.

She is extremly selfish (Begging edward to turn her vampire to live forever in beauty with him and have sex. But all he asks in return is a simple hand in marriage and she shoves a temper tantrum and clearly shows that shes not happy about the wedding) Not to mention tagging Jacob's heart along...

Heck thats probably why she's dating Edward it'll give her a chance to live forever in ultimate Mary-Sue power.

Sure she works hard in her homework and get A's. But she wanted to give it all away just to stay with her boyfriend in Forks.

She wanted to sacrifice college for Edward even though she got in and Edward tries to CONVINCE her to go....(VERY bad message)

She even treats her fairy/vampire friends like crap sometimes (Destroying her stereo gift that alice and jasper saved up for her and Bella wanted to keep it secret behind their backs and hoping edward wouldn't notice it)

She's damsel 24/7 and is possesive over boyfriends. (Jumping off cliffs, Deliberetly going to dangerous clubs with her FRIEND, Lying on the ground in the middle of the forest upset that boyfriend just dumped you, 4 or 5months of not functioning properly and riding motorbikes to see an illusion of him. Mental home anyone?)

"DON'T LEAVE ME EDWARD I'LL DIE!" -.-' Independance just went down -1000 points....

She's is a complete bitch about weddings but is alright for herself to die for a baby and drink human blood with no second thought.

She probably knew that it would kill her and is the perfect chance to force edward to turn her "Vampire" Another point for being selfish
Even when she had the baby she barely hang around it.

and thats all I'm gonna say.....
May 12, 2010 10:49 AM
Guest :
i think that its great but why douse evryon hate her????????
May 14, 2010 8:01 PM
Guest :
hmm, i agree right on with the good stuff. but bella is teaching young girls to depend on a man, for basically life. example: when edward leaves her. she is completely lost--devastated. she is so dependant, yet hes extremely dangerous.
basically telling young girls to:
-go for the hot, dangerous boy. not always the best..
May 28, 2010 5:31 AM
Guest :
Okay first off. IT A BOOK!!!! You don't have to take it seriously. Just read and enjoy it or if you hate it then DON"T read it!! God. reading these commits is so stupid. Bella is HUMAN one more time A HUMAN!! and guess what, Human aren't perfect. Every one has bad traits and good traits. as long as we try to balance them in are lives then their is no reason to hate bella or love bella. And she just a made up person!!! So stop hating Bella or twilight just because of some of the BAD traits!! And plus every one has the own idea on a good or bad role model.
May 28, 2010 5:32 AM
Guest :
Okay first off. IT A BOOK!!!! You don't have to take it seriously. Just read and enjoy it or if you hate it then DON"T read it!! God. reading these commits is so stupid. Bella is HUMAN one more time A HUMAN!! and guess what, Human aren't perfect. Every one has bad traits and good traits. as long as we try to balance them in are lives then their is no reason to hate bella or love bella. And she just a made up person!!! So stop hating Bella or twilight just because of some of the BAD traits!! And plus every one has the own idea on a good or bad role model.
Jun 1, 2010 4:08 AM
Guest :
shes a cow
Jun 12, 2010 7:50 AM
Guest :
she gets pregnant at 18 and dont goo to college or nothing so how is she a good role model? its creepy that people idolise her...
Jun 17, 2010 10:03 PM
Guest :
I'm a 16 year old girl and I am beyond sickened by this "role model"

she makes that sacrafice at the beginning of the book...that's the one good thing she does. Then she falls in love with a man who stalks her, watches her sleep, and takes the engine out of her car. WTF?? If a boy did any of that to me, I would shoot him. Or stake him because Edward is obviously a vampire because he sparkles, has no fangs, and is a vegetarian. Bullshit. Anyways back to Bella...she is way too dependent on Edward. When he leaves she becomes depressed and tries to kill herself. She believes she is nothing without a man, so she goes after Jacob. If a guy dumps a girl, obviously she's going to be upset...but life goes on. People's loved ones DIE and they move on. And she eventually becomes extremely rude to her friends and family. No respect. And her great education...she drops out of school18 to have sex with a fake vampire and bear his poor child. And role models we should have...Janie Starks from Their Eyes Were Watching God. Hermonie Granger from Harry Potter. Eowyn from Lord of the Rings. Elle Greenaway from Criminal Minds. Bella Swan a good role model? My ass.
Jun 28, 2010 1:10 AM
Guest :
The only thing I can say are these four basic facts about bella in all four books.

Twilight--in the beginning, she was all right, but as soon as Edward comes into the picture, she goes from an innocent girl to a obsessive sociopath trying to force Edward to make her a vampire for selfish reasons.

New Moon--my respect for her went down the drain when I read that she fell into a depression because "her boyfriend left her." Independence went down the toilet, and I have to say, she was a real bitch to lead Jacob along like that, making him think that she was interested in him. It was completely unfair to everyone how she treated them. And you would think, she would at least have the decency to tell Edward off for all the pain he put her through. Instead, she opened up her arms to him...again!!! when I read that part, I kept thinking, "What the f***! She didn't even get mad at him?" That's total BS

Eclipse--Bella reached a new level of bitchy behavior, staying with Edward and doing absolutely nothing to help Jake with his depression, even though he went through all that trouble just to help her in the last book! What a bitch! She was encouring sex before marriage, continuing to ask to be changed into a vampire (not even thinking about her family and friends when doing so) and throwing a tantrum about a wedding...HUH?! since when is a wedding so bad that you fight against it? If I had a chance to marry someone who loved me as deeply as Edward does for bella, I would be jumping at the chance, not fighting it! What, has her IQ dropped since the first book or what? and in the end, she did nothing for Jake except give him more pain. Ugh...

Breaking Dawn....well, anyone who read the book would agree that as admirable as it was that she decided to keep her baby, onec she became vampire, she went from "kind" to vain, almost like Rosalie, except worse because at least Rosalie admitted she was vain! And Jake only got worse, so when I found out he imprinted on Nessie, I started laughing, thinking, "serves you right!" Besides, why should she get angry for that. her fault for breaking his heart in the first place. Ah, don't you just love karma?

anyway, point is: Bella's a bitch and Meyer should've and could've done a better job, at least make her stronger than she was portrayed!
Jun 30, 2010 2:05 PM
Guest :
I have to say epic fail on the article here. I would not call her self-sacrificing at all. When I read the scene, where she leaves her mom, I read it not as her trying to be nice for her mother, but as if she felt pushed away, and as if she had to, and she was simply doing what they wanted. She then goes and whines about it, in her own way. That ISN'T self sacrifice.

Some say, it is just fiction, but fiction STILL has what is called 'psycological effect'.
Jul 11, 2010 9:29 PM
Guest :
worst role-model for girls:

Horrible Daughter
Does as she please, even if it worries her father

Horrible Girlfriend
Already has Edward but still plays with Jacobs feelings.
Jul 18, 2010 10:04 PM
Guest :
i disagree. she has fallen hard for edward and they would do anything for eachother. she just has a broken heart and cant focus on anything because she is mentally hurt and she is depressed.
Jul 31, 2010 6:41 PM
Guest :
The article is a perfect sum up of the books, and although it is realitively well written I have a few negatives on the story. Like many of you, I am sure, I have noticed that Bella Swan is a push over. Good natured and selfless is one thing, but constantly bending yourself backwards to please others, nobody does that. Least of all when you get hurt by someone that you entrust your heart to. I am no author but don't writers usually base their characters on real life traits? Or is that a misconception on my part? I find it incredibly pathetic and annoyingly steriotypical on the belief that all women in the world must have a man in order to have their lives complete. I'm sure many of you, like myself, are rather annoyed at how quickly Bella takes back one Edward Cullen after the way he left her, not just the leaving her. But leaving her in danger, then there is the fact that she stupidly didn't have anything to say about one Alice Cullen only returning after a certain extreme sports activity. How many of you find that one wrong? Her ridicilous and unrealistic good nature allows her to be manipulated into things that she doesn't wish to do. How could she have not seen through the very obvious signs of manipulation?
Then there is how she completely refuses to see that Edward, Alice and one Jacob Black are constantly making decisions about her life and allows it. Explain how that is a good role model to me. They are constantly treating her like a baby, but then again babies might have more brains than Bella Swan. She did take back a lying, manipulative, possessive, arrogant bore without so much as rippin his head off (metaphorically obviously, can't go ripping off a vampires head when you're human).
The fourth book also irritates the hell out of me, Edward Cullen whinning constantly about not being able to give her children. But when he knocks up his 18 year old wife and Bella wants to keep it (to make him happy) Edward tries to get Jacob to convince her to bare Jacob's child. What? That is a new level of sick and twisted in my book, that could just have been another excuse to leave her claiming adultery. After all he doesn't hesitate to use a mere paper cut as an excuse to leave her the first time around. And does Bella do anything to defend her honour on the fact that her own husband is practically offering her out for sex? NO! She does nothing, how many women in reality would tolerate that? Minus those whom are forced to use sperm donours for whatever unfortunate reason of course. Because I certaintly wouldn't.
In short the whole serious is basically Bella Swan being controlled, lying back and allowing it to happen. So not a good role model, minus these few things: -
1. Moving in with her father to allow her mother to be happy. (Note that is something that a certain love interest is uncapable of doing)
2. Does not hold value in money or materials.
That's it.
Aug 29, 2010 4:13 PM
Guest :
Hi.
I am in college
Id like to say that i think bella swan is by all means a GOOD role model. She fights for what she loves. She is smart and respectable to her father and mother. She is a only child so no wonder why she is clingy with edward but shes not!!!

STOP HATING HER!!!!!

she is MY role model and I AM HAPPY TO HAVE A ROLE MODEL LIKE HER!
Sep 30, 2010 3:20 PM
Guest :
THIS POST IS FAKEB AND GAY!
Dec 29, 2010 10:31 AM
Guest :
She gets married and has a baby right after she gets out of high school, leaves her family friends behind for a boy she's only known for about a year (I don't care if they're "soulmates" or whatever you want to call her sick, twisted, love) and constantly hurts the people around her. That's called being a good role model nowadays?
Feb 25, 2011 8:15 PM
Guest :
At the end of "Twilight", which I finished reading before 2006 came to an end, I really didn't like Bella's character, and I hated her more throughout the rest of series. In "New Moon", at the end I slammed the book down. The reason why is how she treated Jacob Black (the true love she abandoned), she knew he would do anything for her, so she took advantage of his feelings for her, to get what she wanted, be reckless so she could have hallucinations of Edwards, I was pissed, because in my book, you don't treat people like that, and then have no intentions of returning their feelings and hurt them. The second reason I hate that bitch, you couldn't pay me to give up my humanity for anything or for anyone. Bella says she cares about her family, she don't give a shit about her family, because if she truly cared, she never would've considered on becoming a vampire, knowing that after a few years, she would never be able to see them anymore, because they will see that she's not aging. I would've told her this:
"Before you think about abandoning your own flesh & blood, you might want to think about who kept you alive for 18 years and who loved you first. Charlie & Renee Swan loved you before you could live in this world. They wasn't out of high school for 2 years when you was born. They could have threw your ass out onto the streets or sent you to an orphanage. But because they cared, they gave up their lives and busted their ass to provide you with food, shelter, and clothing. And this is how you repay them, by abandoning them, laymen terms, if it wasn't for them, you wouldn't exist."
That would've brought her back down to planet Earth.
May 4, 2011 1:26 AM
Guest :
I both agree and disagree that Bella is a good role model for teenage girls. Why do I disagree? Yes, she is dependent on her gorgeous leech-hunk and teenwolf. She jumped of a cliff just to hear the former's voice. And here's a commentary on Meyer's conceited writing: having a Mary Sue as the lead role isn't very cheering. It makes girls have low self-esteem. It made me miserable when I read it at age twelve (puke). But, there are also good things about her. A few weeks ago I found myself re-reading part of Twilight out of boredom, and then to Midnight Sun. I'd read the former most recently so I read more of the latter. In some ways, the way Bella is seen through Edward's eyes can make a teenage girl become a better one. Edward loves Bella for being a caretaker, for being polite and patient. Edward also notes that Bella is smart (during lab, when they first interacted), which can be quite a good inspiration on teenage girls to do better at school. Bella also lives simply, and the way she dresses can prevent 9-14 year olds showing too much skin. My opinion, my thoughts.
May 4, 2011 1:33 AM
Guest :
Reading other comments, I realized why I least-hated Twilight the most out of all four books: because Bella was all right back then. She was a really great role model for teenage girls until she got more and more close with Edward, which was... what? 150 pages later? So, yeah. She was great: never fought back to Charlie, self-sacrificing, polite, patient, responsible, and her IQ wasn't totally down the drain. So, I would say that Bella isn't a good role model all-in-all, except for the first 100 or so pages of Twilight.
May 16, 2011 12:58 PM
Guest :
Bella is just a whore, first she kisses Jake when she's with Edward and then she's like Edward have sex with me.. it's like -_- stop acting so friggin desperate you stupid whore
Jul 9, 2011 9:07 AM
Guest :
Bella Swan is a great role model! I don't really care what any of you say, she is my role model! She is a good student, always helps around the house, is kind and respectful to her mother and father, loves her boyfriend so much that she would do anything for him (and he would do anything for her), is compassionate, doesn't care what any one else thinks of her, naturally beautiful and quiet. So what if she gets depressed because Edward leaves her. She was in love with him, how would you feel if the only one you were in love with, left you? I'm sure you would be depressed. I am a Christian and i don't think that making love before marriage is good, because the Bible tells us not to do that. But, she does not make love until after she is married, so thats good and its with the one she loves, she does not sleep around. There are so many girls out there who look up to bad role models such as miley cyrus or britney spears, Bella Swan is a wonderful role model and is my role model! Ever since i read the twilight saga, i've have been more helpful around the house, i do not care what others think of me, i've been quiet and respectful, nice to family and friends. Bella Swan is a great role model!
Sep 21, 2011 4:20 PM
Guest :
this is boring i want a funny sad charecteristic about her!!!
Sep 28, 2011 3:01 PM
Guest :
She's definitely NOT a good rol model.
Sarting for the individual part: she's not a person that loves herself. She has a very poor and sad opinion of herself; she thinks she's not atractive, she thinks she doesn't deserve the atention of anybody, and she tryies to perpetrate suicide because she thinks that she can't live without a man...I mean, teenagers doesn't need a rolemodel that teaches them how to hate themselves, do they? they need somebody to teach them how to valorate their good points, and how to identificate and improve their weak points, and not somebody that passes the time thinking that she's so pitiful and miserable, that needs a hot and millionaire man beeing in love with her to feel good (pathetic). Besides, she's disrespectful with herself: she tolerates that a man could throw out her whenever he likes, and manages to forgive him inmediately when he shows up, without any effort form his side....
In the social area, she doesn't enjoy any company, unless she gain something by doing this(this profit can be emotional encouragement, can be a calm of her sadness, her loneliness, or her desperate necessity of dependency). It seems that she doesn't understeand the concept of "reciprocal friendship", and that's why all of her friends gets fed up of her in the second book, but she doesn't seem to matter so, because she doesn't need them anymore, just as it happened with Jacob when Alice Cullen shows up in the final of the second book...she dismiss him from her mind, and spends all of her time with Alice without a sincere regret; she has the dare of getting mad at him, and treats him as if HE WAS GUILTY!!! And then, she goes away to "save Edward", without even saying "Thank you, and your family, for what you've done for me all this time". I mean, he and his family risked their life for her!! And Edward says that she's "loyal"?! And you still can say that she's polite and caring?! come on..the only thing that I thought could "save" her from beeing such a moron, is the fact that she said Mike (in the first book) that she could'nt go out with him because of Jessica, but considering that she made this to get him off her, it doesn't even count.
Please...you have to admit that if Edward could've read her mind, he would have never felt in love with her, he would've never thought that she's different form the rest of other girls, except for her almost psychopathic way of manipulating and using others for her own benefit.
Bella is the representation (and for that, allows projection) of all those teenager girls that have low self-esteem, and dream with the ilusion of some gorgeous, interesting, millionaire boyfriend that could made them feel special, beautiful above everybody else, and could have eyes just for them, even when there is plenty of gorgeous girls everywhere waiting for him (yes, that's the way Edward makes Bella feel; Roselin had a sublime beauty that meant nothing for Edward comparing with the way Bella made him feel). Considering this point, Stephanie Meyer could've manage to create a different character; could've create a strong, brave, but sweet, kind, and compasive woman, with real love for her people, that could really care and worry for the others... and an Edward just as splendid as he is, that respect her above everything, and doesn't reinforce masochistic acts or extreme dependency.
Mar 8, 2012 9:24 AM
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in this book/movie i think its good it shows you do not have to be the most prettiest, popualr girl in the school to get a guy and fall in love. so thats good. plus bella doesnt wear makeup which is also good proving you dont need makeup to be pretty. so i think shes good in that sort of way, but i guess i can see why some people think otherwise.
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